Embracing the Summer of Sensuality: Rekindling Our Connection to Pleasure

At 48, married for many years and juggling the demands of motherhood to my energetic 11-year-old, it can sometimes feel like sensuality gets lost in the shuffle of everyday life. My typical wardrobe consists of sweatpants, and my days revolve around trips to the gym, driving my kid around, and working from home. Amid the hustle and bustle, I often find it challenging to carve out space for the sensuality that once ignited my spirit.

This summer, however, everything changed. A trip to the stunning Azores with my childhood girlfriends awakened something deep within me—a longing for the pleasures of life. The Portuguese culture, rich in its appreciation for the beauty of existence, enveloped me in a charged atmosphere of sensory delight. From the vibrant colors of the lush landscapes to the seductive flavors of fresh seafood, every moment in the Azores felt alive and invigorating.

The way people lived there was a celebration of the senses. Long, leisurely meals filled with laughter, the soothing sound of waves crashing against the cliffs, and the warmth of the sun on my skin rekindled my connection to sensuality. I realized that life is not just about the daily grind; it’s also about savoring the small pleasures that bring us joy.

Returning home, I felt a renewed desire to revamp my life and shed the jaded attitude that had crept in over the years. I decided it was time to embrace sensuality not just as an occasional treat, but as a way of life. I began to infuse my everyday routine with small moments of pleasure—lighting candles during dinner, wearing softer fabrics that felt good against my skin, and even indulging in a glass of wine while enjoying the sunset.

While I am not a fan of color pink, Rose Quartz became my companion during this transformative time. Known as the stone of love, it encouraged me to cultivate self-love and embrace my body, flaws and all. With its gentle energy, Rose Quartz reminded me that I deserve to feel good in my skin, no matter how busy life gets. Burgundy Jasper, with its grounding properties, helped me reconnect with my earthy essence, encouraging me to indulge in the beauty of my surroundings and savor life’s rich experiences.

As I stepped into this new mindset, I discovered that sensuality isn’t just about grand gestures and wearing sexy clothes; it’s about nurturing the everyday moments. It’s about the way the sun filters through the trees, the comforting embrace of a hug, and the laughter shared with friends. This summer, I’m committed to exploring the world around me with fresh eyes, seeking out those little delights that awaken my senses.

So, here’s to embracing the Summer of Sensuality! Let’s rekindle our connection to pleasure, whether it’s through the taste of a delicious meal, the feeling of soft fabrics, or the beauty of a sunset. Together, let’s celebrate our bodies, indulge our senses, and remember that life is meant to be enjoyed. It’s time to shed sweatpants and step into a world filled with vibrant colors, tantalizing flavors, and moments of pure joy!